I have coarse(or what for some black people you call "nappy" hair) but I have relaxer and

what should i use to give my hair that wavy wet look and keep it that way?

I have coarse(or what for some black people you call "nappy" hair) but I have relaxer and I was wondering

Nothing. You have to be born with that hair texture.

I have coarse(or what for some black people you call "nappy" hair) but I have relaxer and I was wondering

girl why are you referring to your hair as nappy? What does nappy mean anyway? The word is meaningless.

You should learn to embrace your natural god-given texture because its beautiful, and God doesn't make mistakes.